The legal position no one tells unmarried couples
You may have picked tiles together, split the deposit, and shared every mortgage payment — but in the eyes of the law in England and Wales, you are two unrelated individuals. There is no such thing as a "common-law marriage". If one of you dies, the other hasno automatic right to inherit anything at all, under the intestacy rules. Length of relationship, shared bills, even shared children make no difference to that basic rule.
How you own the house decides what happens without a will
Couples own property in one of two ways, and the difference is everything:
- Joint tenants. You own the whole property together. When one of you dies, it passes automatically to the survivor — outside any will. The good news: the survivor keeps the home. The bad news: everything else you own — savings, investments, possessions — goes to your blood family under intestacy, not to your partner.
- Tenants in common. You each own a defined share (often 50/50). Your share does not pass automatically — without a will it goes to your parents, siblings or other relatives. The survivor can end up owning half a house alongside your family, and can be forced into a sale.
Either way, dying without a will leaves the person you love in a worse position than the law would ever give a married spouse.
What a will lets you do
- Tenants in common: leave your share of the house to your partner, so the survivor ends up owning the whole home rather than co-owning with your relatives.
- Joint tenants: your will covers everything beyond the house — savings, pensions paid to the estate, possessions — and decides what happens if you both die together.
- Name each other as executors, so the survivor is in charge of the estate rather than watching a relative apply to administer it.
- Add backstop beneficiaries — who inherits if you are both gone — so nothing is left to the intestacy lottery.
Most couples in your position make matching wills; our guide to wills for unmarried couples covers the whole picture.
When you need a solicitor instead
We are will writers, not a law firm — and some property situations need proper legal advice. See a solicitor (or licensed conveyancer) if:
- you contributed unequal shares and want a declaration of trust recording who owns what;
- you want to sever a joint tenancy — converting to tenants in common so your share can pass by will — as part of a wider plan;
- your estate is large enough that inheritance tax bites: unmarried partners get no spouse exemption, so anything above the £325,000 nil-rate band passing between you is taxed at 40%. With a house in the mix, that threshold arrives sooner than people expect.
Our page do I need a solicitor for a will? sets out the boundary honestly.
How to protect each other this week
If your affairs are straightforward, you can each make a will in about 15 minutes: start here, answer plain-English questions, and download instantly. It costs £35 one-time (or £55 for a pair of mirror wills), with free updates for life and no upsells. Then print and sign in wet ink with two witnesses present together, as s.9 of the Wills Act 1837 requires. Until it is signed, none of this protection exists.